Grave meanings with usage and example

Grave me anings with usage
قبر کا حال تو مردہ ہی جانتا ہے
*Literal-Only the dead knows the condition of the grave.

*Idiomatic-Only the wearer knows where the shoe pinches.

*Meaning-Only the person who is suffering from anything can feel the pain.
So don't rub salt to other's wounds if you can't help them to heal their wounds.